It is always the ones who has never hit rock bottom, that are quick to judge others and take things to the ass. Not every single person is going to attack you by a simple blunt remark. Some people take things too personally and get butt hurt over it. Grow up and learn how to adjust to the situation by looking at it in different views. Maybe that person wasn’t attacking you; it’s probably how they were raise to communicate. Every culture has a different communication style; some are encouraged to be blunt while others are encouraged to be conservative. You just have to know which one you are dealing with and how to communicate with those that differs from your own. Stop being a baby by taking things up the ass and start opening your mind.